Buy “Worth More” on iTunes!!

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Hi everyone,

Worth More is now on iTunes click on the following link to purchase it: Buy Worth More.

Not only is the single out on iTunes but it is also available in GooglePlay and TIDAL. Thank you all for showing love and support to my journey and I am looking forward to growing and sharing more. You can look at the making of the song (click here) and enjoy!

Have a listen below:

T.McCaghrey(BMI)/O.Agca(BUMA)/M.Harmon(ASCAP)

Lyrics by Tambu-christel McCaghrey.

All vocals, written, sang and arranged by Tambu-christel McCaghrey.

Instrumental by Omer Agca for Turreekk Beats.

Produced by Omer Agca for Turreekk Beats, Tambu-christel McCaghrey and Michael Harmon at Studio Crash, Inc.

Recorded, mix and mastered by Michael Harmon at Studio Crash, Inc. Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

The making of “Worth More”.

Thank you all for tuning in!!

I would like to start off by wishing you all brilliant health and happiness. I will then carry on by sharing the journey of making my single Worth More. Have a listen here.

Credit:

T.McCaghrey(BMI)/O.Agca(BUMA)/M.Harmon(ASCAP)

Lyrics by Tambu-christel McCaghrey.

All vocals, written, sang and arranged by Tambu-christel McCaghrey.

Instrumental by Omer Agca for Turreekk Beats.

Produced by Omer Agca for Turreekk Beats, Tambu-christel McCaghrey and Michael Harmon atSTUDIO Crash, Inc.

Recorded, mix and mastered by Michael Harmon at Studio Crash, Inc. Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

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I am back in the studio and by the sound of it, I am musically matured tremendously!! I would like to thank Philadelphia for having me and giving me so much inspiraton.

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The song was written the very same day it was recorded in April 2016. I wrote the song for my daughters. The message behind the song for me was that I travel a lot and we live a life as such entertainers that it may seem that I sacrifice a lot of the quality time we could have, in order to succeed professionally. I then tell them that I hope I never hear them tell me that I am to regret all the times I “left them”.


Even though this was my personal touch and experience. I’ve soon realised that the song could easily be for everybody. It could be a partner who works a lot and leave his wife home due to his career and vice versa. It could be teenagers to their parents or, like myself, a parent to their children. It could be a best friend to another. The song could be shared between siblings and family members.

I would like to give a big shout out to everybody who has supported me and my music. There is more to come!!

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Thank you again for your support. You can get Worth More on iTunes any time!!

Make sure to follow myself on instagram at @tambuchristel and my baby label @danielstrongent

Have a blessed day Strong Ones!

Sincerly,
Tam.

Music industry Christmas event.

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Christmas and new year eve are here. That time of the year that everybody take advantage of to celebrate until they lose all senses. I’m not that bad though and my faith doesn’t believe in Christmas celebrations. However, I was invited to an event from a music industry party so I decided to go and bring my friend and stylist, Jessica.

The night went well. We had a good time. The party was all free drinks so we took advantage of that 😉 the music was good and the food was awesome.

Check the pictures below and to those who celebrate Christmas, Merry Christmas to you and your family!

Yours truly,
Tam ♥

Christmas fashion show by the British Red Cross.

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We all know what the British Red Cross is about. They have been one of the many organisations who try their best to help those in need all over the world.

The fashion show was help in effort to raise money for the causes that British Red Cross are involved in. The clothes worn by the models that evening were for sale and all the funds were then given to help those in need.

Designers included Linda Bennett, Daniel Blake, Valerie Corona, Orla Kiely, Kelly Simpkin, Paul Slade, the most anticipated woman of the night Amanda Wakeley and Judy Wu.

The event took good care of everybody who attended and the location was well chosen. The show was a success and the people in attendance were amazing and polite. Thank you for having me and my beautiful friend and stylist Jessica Nanteza.

Jessica and I had a brilliant time at the show so we decided to do a little after party of our own. We always have great times together and discuss things that matters to one another. It is hard to meet people that connects with you on a genuine level so when you find them, keep them.

We added more fun, alcohol and laughter to our evening. Everything was just perfect. Look at the pictures below and come back to my website soon!

With love always,
Tam ♥

Tambu in OMG! Magazine.

Good evening strong ones,

Make sure you get your copy of this week’s OMG! Magazine !!! The magazine features a story I shared about Daniel, my son.

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You can turn sorrow into a blessing if you put your heart at it. You never recover from certain wounds. You’ll never truly feel happy and fulfilled because certain situations are just beyond everything you’re able to endure. However, as we are here on earth with no other choice but live this life of sin we might as well live it the way it suits us best.

Go out there, get what you want. Turn your pain into passion and conquer the world.

The story has slight changes to the way I recall saying it but I understand that a writer will write in ways that suit, touch and appeal to their audience the best way they can. As long as people feel empowered with it I am okay.

Make sure you grab yours!! On shelves this week starting Monday 25th of May 2015.

Regards,
Tam.

– Posted from a mobile device.

Tambu-christel’s interview with VENTS magazine.

Vents Magazine (page 90)
www.ventsmagazine.com/magazine

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Hi Tambu, welcome to VENTS! How have you been?

I’ve been well and blessed. I feel very honoured told what I do, the way my team and I are doing it. I’m very grateful and happy.

In what way did your days as an X Factor contest help you grow and shape you as an artist?

As many of you may know, I am the founder of the record label I’m signed to and because of that I’m also what people call ‘an music industry professional’. The Xfactor factor really enlightened that side of me. It made me realise that an entire game lies behind entertainment and that I had to know how to play before starting the game.

Such shows are entertainment. They are here to amuse people at home and cater to the bordem a nation may have and lead then to tune in TV, at first. Then you have the singing. At that point, it was about learning the production and entertainment business values that particular show had.

I know I can sing. I’ve seen many brilliant vocalists being told to go home. However, I wasn’t aware of the business side and production so I took that part in and I went home to be create what lead to me talking to you today.

It didn’t make me. But it did awaken the music business side of me. Definitely.

Can you talk to us more about the story behind your latest single “Preach”?

Preach is about having that last tender moment with someone and telling them that they want it to give them chills. They want to remember it. They want magic out of it.

They both know it’s a goodbye moment so they want to express that moment properly

Can you talk to us more about the recording process?

Sure.

Recording to me is about chemistry. If you don’t get along with the people in the studio you will get distracted. If you don’t like the location it will also play in your mind. So, you need to have a great team. Whatever is good for you gotta be the way or it won’t work.

For Preach, I loved everything about it. It was my first single. It was my first official sound all these years back so I was proud. People loved it’s simplicity. They love that I just flow and not over sing even though I could. So I’m please that it’s return to the public is being successful.

K your life when you were writing the song?

I talk about everything around me when I write. It can be about my life or a person I may be close to. I also write about the things I read about or imaginary situation that I wonder what if it happened to me? How would I react?

Many factors and elements are implimented in my lyrics or compositions. That’s how I get creative.

I understand the song is part of your upcoming debut album – how’s that coming along?

I’m so excited for so many reasons!! It’s doing great and I feel so blessed. I have 21songs so far I’ve thought of having a volume 1 & 2!!

I’ll release a few singles and videos and take it from there.

Any official release date, title in mind?

The follow up single is coming out in December. We’ve already shot the music video. As for the album, the excitement is taking over I keep changing everything!! Ha! That’s the power of independence.

I feel very blessed and I’ll make sure to let you know more.

Will you be hitting the road this year?

Yes, I’m starting show in London on Thursday November 20th. Footage will be available online. I’m still looking to add more dates to those we already have but yes. I am starting to lay down these vocals live.

What else is happening next in Tambu-christel´s world? 

Blessings. I’m very grateful. I have Three beautiful daughters growing up with values and manners. I have a healthy life style. I am professionally in a stable place yet growing everyday to get to where I’d love to get to (which is to receive a Grammy someday).

I am very grateful and thankful. Thank you so much for having me, Vents.

Sincerely.

Mobo Awards 2014 in SSE Wembley.

Hey Strong Ones,

You all have seen me rise in so many levels and it gets better with time!! I am very happy to tell you all that I was a part of this year’s Mobo Awards which took place in Wembley.

I took my family with me as usual and we had an amazing executive suite at the Hilton’s Hotel. Thanks to the hilton and the mobos for making it happen. My husband and children settled in fine!! My daughters were so excited to get there they started packing their own suitcases!! We had an amazing time!! Big shout out to the Hilton Hotel in Wembley 😉



At that point, it was time for me to get ready for the show!! I pre-selected a few outfits I wanted to wear and then went with the flow. I’m happy with the final look and I’m thankful to everybody online who.commented during that night!!

The show started at 5.30pm for VIPs we have a red carpet moment followed by a reception among other things. It was a good opportunity to network and get to know the other people there. I’ve met beautiful people both established and up and coming and of course I was here for the drrriinnkkkss!!

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The show was brilliant so many act that I was blown away by. They all sang and rap live. They were all so much better live than on radio!! I felt inspired and so grateful to be a part of it!! I’m truly thankful. But, it didn’t stop here!!!

The after party was also good. I didn’t stay until the end because I was starving and as my husband and children were staying with me at the hotel it was very convenient to come and go out of the party as it took place at the hilton’s ballroom. Again, I pictured the madness 😉

All this fun had to come to an end eventually so we returned home. I had an amazing time and my family and I enjoyed every single bit of it!! It is not over though as we have many more event to go to!!

I will finished this post by showing you my little girl!! Once we returned, the fireworks were all up the sky so we took a minute to look at them. She is at that age where everything is amazing and it’s so adorable to see!!

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Thank you all so much for your daily views!! I’m so thankful for you all!! Make sure you follow us on instagram at @danielstrongent

Yours truly,
Tam.

Visiting VEVO HQ in London.

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VEVO would like to share with you some of the great results that they have achieved over the past three years. Looking to the future they will highlight the exciting opportunities for you and your artists across their platform, and look for ways to improve collaboration with you. 

VEVO welcome you to their London HQ to answer any questions you may have, and to share a drink.

Schedule:

Registrations & Arrival Drinks

Presentation & Q&A

Networking Drinks

Once again, I feel very blessed to be able to be a part of these beautiful events. I’ve learned more than I thought I would. I’ve met new people and obviously enquired about my personal vevo page.

The event was great and we had quite a few drinks!! My photographer and I enjoyed ourselves and we pictured the day perfectly for yall to enjoy!!

I am looking into ways to create a platform for up and coming artist to have access to the things I do. I can not comment on this further because it’s a new idea and truth is I have so much to do already that I don’t know when I’d be able to put that in place but I do think it’d be a great platform to explore. For now, I am thankful to vevo for having us. It is always a pleasure to be among other industry professionals.

Thank you guys for tuning in and regularly check for me. I am thankful to everybody following us. I also would like to take a minute to thank god for blessing me the way he does and loving and supporting me as his daughter and my passion. To everybody that know me, I love you. To everybody who love me, I love you. To everybody I will get to know in life, I already love and appreciate you.
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Thank you all again. Yours truly,
Tam.

6 Tactics narcissists will use to silence you by R.J.Wilson

Ladies and gentlemen, these are real. Always put your sanity first and learn when to let go of all the people, situations and envirements that are toxic! Love, Tam ❤

6 Tactics narcissists will use to silence you.

Are you the victim of a narcissist’s toxic manipulation? Check out some of their most common approaches to twisting your mind -Jun 20, 2017 by R.J. Wilson.

It’s smart to know how to identify the signs that you’re being jerked around by someone with a disorder that blunts their capacity to experience empathy or treat you like a human being—for example, a narcissist.

The only way to win is not to play.

Gaslighting
The term “gaslighting” typically refers to psychological manipulation intended to make someone question their perception of reality.

Gaslighters might claim that something didn’t happen, or that the accuser imagined some elements of her story. It’s an extremely damaging tactic, since it can compel a person to question her sense of reality.

To respond to gaslighting, try not to engage. Remain as calm as possible and cultivate an awareness; by understanding what the narcissist is trying to do, you can respond more effectively.

Perhaps most importantly, know that you don’t have to convince the narcissist or win the argument. Maintain your perspective and give yourself credit; you’re not making this up, and your feelings are certainly valid.

Shaming
This classic manipulation technique is also one of the most damaging. While the method may seem obvious, it can be quite subtle if carried out by a narcissist whom you trust and adore.

The implication is that the narcissist is more mature and has developed beyond the level of the other person.

Don’t respond in kind; widening your vocabulary, calling the other person immature, or listing your academic credentials won’t strengthen your position with a narcissist.

Diversion
It can be frustrating when someone changes the subject in the middle of a conversation, but when a partner does this to avoid taking responsibility for their actions, diversion can be downright dangerous. Narcissists use this tactic to derail conversations that may lead to an unpleasant result.

Instead, insist on keeping the topic of the conversation out in front. Resist the urge to respond to personal attacks; remain calm and focused, and you’ll be able to maintain control.

Triangulation
To make themselves seem more credible—and to dismiss their partner’s feelings—narcissists may bring another person into the mix in an attempt to “stack the deck” in their favor.

They might say, ‘Well it’s not only me who thinks this way.’

This is an especially insidious technique when the narcissist uses someone you personally trust or admire to diminish you.

The narcissist may also use a third person who could be a threat to you—an ex-lover, for instance—in an effort to force you into submission. You may feel forced to compete with the third person.

Projection
Projection is the act of taking your own thoughts, feelings, or behaviors and pushing them onto others. 

There are several different kinds of projection—neurotic, complementary, and complimentary. And while most people project on occasion, narcissists frequently employ projection as a means of psychological abuse.

This is another way in which the narcissist avoids addressing their own imperfections; rather than taking responsibility for their behaviors, they force their victims to assume that responsibility.

Name-Calling
Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you—except when they do. Because they really do! Narcissists have caught onto this fact and will use it to their advantage.

Of course, there’s something undeniably childish about resorting to name-calling, and that’s typically not the approach you would expect from someone who has spent their life refining manipulation tactics.

A bad nickname affects your self esteem, and studies show that name-calling affects compliance. The narcissist may or may not be aware that he’s using this form of manipulation, but the malicious intent is usually clear to everyone (except, perhaps, the victim).

How to Get Out
If any of these situations are familiar, you might be dealing with a manipulative person. When that person is your partner, you may need to get out of the relationship.

However, severe situations require immediate action. Realize that you cannot change or reason with an extreme narcissist, and that any attempts can lead to them working themselves back into your life.

If you decide to end a relationship with an extreme narcissist, Glass recommends making a clean break if possible.

Use your support system and don’t allow the conversation to continue. Block the narcissist’s number and email address and cut off any communication outlets. While this might seem harsh, it’s the only way to truly keep them out of your life.

We should note that the suggestions in this article don’t apply to every situation, and severely abusive relationships often need to be handled differently to ensure your safety.

If you or someone you know is encountering abuse, visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline website or call 1-800-799-7233.

Appreciating black love, mutual respect & true understanding of companionship.


TRUE LOVE – I tell my husband everyday how much of a great man he is BUT no matter what I do for him, I feel its not enough. He is so amazing. I’ve never known anything like this.

To everybody seeing me cook everyday for him. Clean everyday for us. Wake up at crazy early times in the morning to help him get ready for work. Help him get to his dreams and sort his clothes etc. I feel like it’s still not enough because he is a true king.

I get his baths ready. Massage him when work get the best of him. Soothe him and comfort him…. yet I still feel like he is so amazing that he needs more.

I don’t know what I did to deserve someone like this. God didn’t fail me. I didn’t even know men like him existed in this generation. 

HE LOVES ME in ways I didnt know love could me.

HE RESPECTS ME like i didn’t even know a woman could be respected because we live in a world where women are sooooo strong that we became “men”.

HE VALUES ME AND MY BODY for the creator I am. I am life. Women are life. I am treasure. I am jewels. I am royalty and so is he.

I would like to send a MASSIVE congratulations to all my sisters WHO GOT THEIR KING at last!! We are truly a testimony that GOOD THINGS HAPPEN TO GREAT WOMEN who finally understand AND VALUE themselves. 

I love you all my sisters ❤✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻

Dear kings out there, we thank you and value you with all that we are ❤👌🏿👌🏾👌🏽👌🏼👌🏻

Your girl,

Tam.

Manhood & fatherhood vs Womanhood & child bearing/motherhood.

THOUGHT OF THE NIGHT – My husband always make sure we are warm and have appropriate clothes for this cold weather. I’ve never had a man that made such thing a priority. French men are providers too. Swiss men are hella responsible and life planners like no other BUT English men (estate people – lower class British) are just sperm donors with rights.

1. Trust me when I say they will NOT buy your kids winter clothes or even ask if your kids are good for winter. It’s not their concerns at all because “The mother should be responsible and do it”.

2. These low class English men will NOT worry about yall kids having warm water, heating on, electricity that your children need to live on because “The mother should be responsible and handle it”. 

3. Hysterical fact, it is LEGAL in England for a man to pay £10 a month PER CHILD in child support. UK fact: “Parents face bills of almost a quarter of a million pounds (£250,000) to raise just one child to the age of 21, new research shows. Surging childcare fees and expenses linked to education mean the basic cost of bringing up a child in the UK has risen 50 per cent faster than inflation over more than a decade.”

However, the said man will SHOUT OUT LOUD that:

a) They pay for their kids and that the mother is a “stupid b*tch” and ungrateful. The mother takes “their money” and use it on herself!! Guys, we’re talking diapers every two weeks plus baby milk and clothes etc minus bills FOR THE CHILD as well as activities and daily cost! Yup, your petty ass £10 ain’t shit for nobody to ball tf out. Okay, looooney?? 🤔🙄

b) They would stunt on the net claiming all type of bullsh*t but they have NO CLUE as to what their kids do at school at all. Fam, who is your kid school teacher? Oh you don’t know??! Okay, looooney 🤔🙄

I am so lucky that I no longer have this problem. I have a working man who makes sure that the children are always clothed, they always have warmth, electricity and a damn shelter over their heads. 

DON’T GET ME WRONG LADIES I have been a single mum before. I have beeeeen paying bills. I know damn well we, women, beeeeen holding shit down. Im just saying though that i am glad that THIS SHIT RIGHT THERE is no longer my story. 

HONESTLY, my dad is the only man prior to my husband I have had experienced that with.

It wasn’t just me though, my friends and many women I knew had “ain’t shit men” too. So it felt like NO GOOD MAN was out there and that the kind of man that many of us HAVE NOW didn’t exist then. So, we gave up and thought we had to stay with the devil we knew best UNTIL YOU SAY FUCK THAT and getchu yourrr real man!!! 😏👏🏾

I’m just glad I got to marry a good family man. I am a good family woman myself so to be able to finally give my all to my very own WORTHY family is everything.

I WOULD LIKE TO TAKE A MOMENT to salute all the beautiful men AND fathers out there. We need more like you AND WE APPRECIATE YOU and all that you do.

England is dysfunctional af fr fr 😐😑😴

NOW – WOMEN – don’t let a man use as a “surrogate” to have kids. Some men DO NOT respect the process of child bearing. It is in fact a life threatening process for you or your child. Many babies don’t make it past three months, 6 months, birth and then after!! Many mothers die while pregnant, during birth or after!!

These men out there are sh*tting on women. Calling them out of their names consistently and they DON’T GIVE A FUCK about the fact that for 10months gestation you created life. You had to change your lifestyle and diet. You had a million health checks to do. Some women lost their hair, broke their teeth (due to a need of calcium). You became anemic, got diabetic. A WHOLE LOT OF SH*T!! YET, you made it. The baby made it. You all survived all the complications through the pregnancy (if any complications occured) BUT A MF’ER GONNA DISRESPECT YOU AFTER ALL THAT TAKE YOUR CHILD?

DON’T 👏🏾 LET 👏🏾 A 👏🏾 MF’ER 👏🏾 USE 👏🏾 YOU!!! 👏🏾👏🏾 YOU ARE NOT A SURROGATE. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY YOU WILL DO ALL THE WORK and he would sit back yet bitch all day. Depending how, these MFs will even claim that the job YOU DID was theirs!!! CHOOSE YOUR MAN WISELY!!!

👏🏾👏🏾 If y’all not out here BUILDING FAMILIES TOGETHER IN PARTNERSHIP – DON’T HAVE KIDS!!!!

👏🏾👏🏾 If y’all aren’t committed to make it work as parents for your kids because you’re not mature enough – DON’T HAVE KIDS!!

👏🏾👏🏾 If a man don’t respect women – DON’T FUCK WITH HIM!!

👏🏾👏🏾 If a woman isn’t what you need – DO NOT GIVE HER YOUR SPERM!! 

So many of us made these mistakes WHEN ARE YALL GON LEARN?????????? seriously. I’m just happy I don’t have to worry about them bullsh*ts there no more. Smh. DO BETTER SIS!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Goodnight. Tam 😐

The things we neglect in relationships.

Good morning Strong Ones,

There are a few things I would like to address today and I hope that they resonate with a few people.


1) Do you know how HEALTHY it is for your kids to see you, mums and dads, show affection to one another?
As parents we gotta show these kids affection. When parents show respect and love to each other, it gives them hope in THEMSELVES finding true love in their future. 

It gives them a guide for the things they should look for, self-esteem, worth and respect. 

They need to learn that they deserve to love and be loved with peace. They need to witness this through their parents at home (biological or not, fosters, adoptive) have long lasting LOVING unions. Healthy environment. Healthy companionships and surrounding. 

❌ Dysfunction starts by telling your kids that men/women aint shit. 

❌ That love either doesn’t exist or is overrated. 

❌ Calling men niggas and women bitches.

❌ These children are totally detached to emotions, feelings, affections.

❌ Young kids watching porn learn to FUCK “bitches”. Not to LOVE WOMEN.

✔ WHAT THEY NEED is to see their parents help each other do the Christmas tree up (i dont do pagan holidays but you get my drift)

✔ These kids need to catch a few PDAs and act stupid talking about “mum and dad kiisssseeed ewwwwww yall in looveeee”!!

✔ These kids need to accidentally see their parents silly dance or silly sing to each other in the living room while their were on their way to get a glass of milk in the kitchen late at night.

Y’all out here MURDERING these kids spirits and faith in the world. This goes for any parents including adoptive ones. Whoever raising kids, this is for y’all!

sigh….. just siiighhhh…..

2) “I would like to take a special minute to salute all the step parents out there, all the foster and adopting families out there. Anyone who takes care of children that aren’t biologically theirs like blood couldn’t bring them closer.

I have fostered children and I have taken care of children that weren’t mine too but I see so many other people doing just that as well everyday so I want you all to know y’all are special.

I would like to give a big shout out to everyone who gave love one more chance and hit the jackpot with a significant other that is greater than any man/woman you’ve know before!

❌ You didn’t settled. 

❌ You aren’t in a relationship you feel is less than you.

You were blessed to have EVERYTHING you wished for and more including for them to be EXCELLENT PARENTS to your kids. It doesn’t get any better than this. Money can’t buy this. You and your children are wealthier than most. You, my friend, have reached your highest and I hope that you’re thankful. I sure am.”

3) You have no idea how much joy cooking for my family brings me. I find myself trying new things and making up new recipes for my husband and children.

I love the look on my husband’s face when he comes home after a long day at work to a beautiful place. Home cleaned (the place is never dirty) and tidy. Smell of food either made or being made. The clothes cleaned, dried and ironed. 

To relax and watch TV with a peace of mind and a sense of serenity. Things like this gives me so much happiness – even though i be tired as shit doing alll aahh daaaatttt 😳 but it’s love and i appreciate my beautiful family 💖☺ 

It’s even more fun and beautiful when my little girls make cakes with me! I raised such amazing little girls and I am happy that they have such a beautiful role model and male figure in their lives to teach them how to appreciate and love a woman. I’m hopeful that they will grow to choose wisely when it comes to men in the future. 

Everything is about energy and environment. I am honored that my husband and I truly made this house a home. 😚🤗


I tell my husband I love him everyday. He tells me that he loves me everyday. I urge you all to tell your significant other that you love them because life is truly precious. 
I am thankful and grateful 🏆❤ because even when angry, our love prevails.

Go out there and live your best life 😏❤ you deserve it.

Thank you all for reading,

Tam x

Happy birthday to me August 12

Good morning Strong Ones,

I am happy to finally write this post. I shared my thoughts on how amazingly in love I am but here are what you missed!


Thank you all for passing by as usual. I am 30 years old!

Thanks a million to my baby for making this day the best day of 2017!!

Love,

Tam 💖

Wealthier than most! 

REAL-RAP POST OF THE DAY:

“I would like to take a special minute to salute all the step parents out there, all the foster and adopting families out there. Anyone who takes care of children that aren’t biologically theirs like blood couldn’t bring them closer.

I have fostered children and I have taken care of children that weren’t mine too but I see so many other people doing just that as well everyday so I want you all to know y’all are special.

I would like to give a big shout out to everyone who gave love one more chance and hit the jackpot with a significant other that is greater than any man/woman you’ve know before!

❌ You didn’t settled. 

❌ You aren’t in a relationship you feel is less than you.

You were blessed to have EVERYTHING you wished for and more including for them to be EXCELLENT PARENTS to your kids. It doesn’t get any better than this. Money can’t buy this. You and your children are wealthier than most. You, my friend, have reached your highest and I hope that you’re thankful. I sure am.”

With love always,

Tambu.

The best economy class in my book so far – KLM (@klm)

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REVIEW TIME!! Hey everyone my name is Tambu and I travel as much as many of you all drive your cars to work everyday…. here is my take on @klm airline: They have BY FAR the best economy class I have ever seen in my life on their international flights. I have never been on their European planes but the planes they have for international flights are amazing!! Everything is excellent to me. The food (check). The wifi provider (yes they have excellent wifi service it’s insane I lost my mind, check check check). The seats, headsets and THEIR TV A STREET MOVIE SELECTION (check, check, check, check). // Some of you may not know but national flights, regional flights, continental flights and international flights… All these have different planes as they provide different miles and capacities. Even so, airlines like @americanair or @Britishairlines don’t come anywhere close to #KLM when it comes to comfort in ECONOMY class!! THE DESIGN AND COMFORT IS JUST UNMATCHED so far in my experience. Thank you KLM for having me.

Beautiful within. 

 As if you were on fire from within…. 

The moon lives in the lining of your skin. Pablo Neruda


Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart. Kahlil Gibran


People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross


There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others. Mandy Hale


Outer beauty attracts, but inner beauty captivates. Kate Angell

Love, 

Tam. 

Traveling to exhaustion but expending my horizon. 

Good day all my strong ones

I can’t express how thankful and grateful I am for the opportunity to travel as much as I do. I truly am. 

I feel like my parents gave that to me as they were both business people and traveled the world long before I came along. They would take me traveling with them when I arrived and that didn’t truly stopped. 

We don’t realize how much our environment impact the way we think, act and envision things from birth. People generally think that teenage years are the “shaper” of who we are to become but it start way before that.


I travel for business. I travel for family related affairs. I travel for tourism. I traveled for love. I traveled for celebrations. 

I am however coming to a point where my body is asking me to settle and calm down in the traveling. 


This post is to say thanks. I want to thank myself for the drive that never left my body since my son died. For, because of him Daniel Strong Entertainment was born. I would like to thank everybody who ever believed in me and gave me the opportunity I happened to have been a part of. Music business was such an amazing journey and I will forever take that part of my life with me. It was a life changer and I am forever thankful that my late son was able to bring such an amazing inspiration to me which I then passed on to so many people. 


I would like to thank every single academic establishments I attended. Studying business materials made me the business woman I am now. The discipline behind these courses and modules were truly gifts. Thanks to all my teachers. Thanks to the fellow students. Business management is not over for me. Not only will I continue to study it until I hold my PhD but this added bonus to my CV (resume) allowed me to add bonus to my career. I can now do business seminars and more as I mixed education, experiences and innovation to my material for all the people that attend my classes. Truly a gift.

Bu’ & Brand is the one to watch out for as it is my latest venture but I know that you already have check my beautiful line. Thank you for wearing them. 
A big shout out to my beautiful country of Switzerland for helping me build it and thank you to the beautiful creative country of Italy as without you I wouldn’t have had this line! Started close to 3years ago! 


Give all the thanks and be grateful y’all. I wish you all motivation and success in abundance. 
Thank you for continously supporting me. I can honestly say that I don’t think I’d be here without you all. 

Love truly, 

Tam. 

Business seminars: Day 2.


Good morning strong ones
I hope that you all are okay and that life is treating you well. I also hope that you are looking and striving to be all that you ever wish to become. 

If not, do not worry it is never too late. Never. 

I am sharing this post because I wrote in a previous post that I became more than just a business graduate from higher education and more than a music industry professional. 


Life brought me to an opportunity I didn’t think I would have just yet by allowing me to teach and share business knowledge and life lessons to amazing beings that attended the classes/seminars I gave
It is an amazing feeling to know that I have learned enough to share and I love to feel that I am of need to many people out there. 


Again, I would like to thank everybody who made this possible for me and believed in me. 
I have many more classes coming. I will post them on Instagram. Make sure to follow me online at @tambuchristel

Have a blessed day, 

Tam. 

Business as usual: Seminars. 

Good morning strong ones
I have absolutely no way to truly describe what happened to me lately but it is nothing but blessings. 

I am expending my resume’ by adding more business experiences and achievements. 

This beautiful month of May 2017 was filled with incredible business opportunities and this is truly what I needed! 
Let get to the point shall we? 

I was hired to work within a corporation that was to help be discover how far my abilities went. These are a mixture of the things I know I can do and the things I would discover that I am capable of doing. 

In the mist of it all I found that my business savvy and ability to conduct seminars were impressive. I later were given the opportunity to give the knowledge I have in business with many others and each classes I had were full!! 


Amazing! 
Through this post I am formally announcing that I am now taking booking for such all over the world. Do not hesitate to contact me and I will tell you the things I can and can NOT do. 

For all those planning to have me, I can not wait to be whenever in the world with you! 

Love always, 

Tambu. 

Black girl magic from Congo & Switzerland. 

Good evening everyone, 

It is new tattoo alert!! A lot of things have happened in my life lately and I decided to add some ink on me. I want it on my neck! I have a big tattoo on my back that isn’t done yet and it shall be over by the summer but I felt the urge to express myself once more with a permanent stamp but this time in my name. 

The following tattoo will be dedicated to my parents. For now hear me out on this tat! 

I want to dedicate the process of healing and the celebration of women to Switzerland. Many may wonder why Switzerland? 

Well, although I take full pride in my Congolese roots, I was born and raised in Switzerland. I didn’t understand the beauty of the value of our upbringing until I got older. So many things such as the way we treat and care for others. Respect for our elders. The respect we teach our children to have amongst themselves and politeness. Values in cleanliness all to way to the importance of education.

A lot of these are heavily influenced by my African roots when it comes to me and the way I apply life learned discipline in my life but many aspect of who I am come from my upbringing coming from Switzerland. 

Before we go any further, do not allow your ignorance to blind the way I wrote this post with your perspective of what you may read from me. 

What I am trying to express is that I had the exact amount of cultural influences in my life to enable me to find pride in my identity and knowledge of self. 

Back to the subject at hand, the new ink that celebrates Switzerland and Congo. Both countries have helped me and supported me in time I almost lost value in myself. For this, I am thankful. 

The tattoo says: “🇨🇭 05.16 began the journey to self love and empowerment from 🇨🇩 strong roots that made magic born on 12.08.1987” 

I thank Congo-Kinshasa for giving me the strength I carried throughout the years. I strongly believe that some people are genetically stronger than other both emotionally and physically. I would not have survived the things I lived without that genetic and cultural dime of Congo. It is a fact to me. 

Also, I can not live this life and pretend that Switzerland did not save me from myself in numerous occasions. They never saw color when it came to me. They fought for me each time they could. They gave me purpose on a personal level and they have supported me my goals. Switzerland will always be home. My children are home. For this I feel honored to be Swiss. 

Unlike the UK, Switzerland and France, that I know of are countries that protect women. England will damage a person’s life to the death and blame them for the fact that the person became broken. In England, a victim would be treated like a criminal. There is no such thing as a “color blind” and “Equal” system in the UK. 

However, Switzerland is all for the protection of women and children. It is a country that caters to anyone, male or female, with mental health and needs. They want their nation to be somewhat healthy. They have an amazing culture and very children friendly in their upbringing. 

They promote business savvy minds and higher pay. They value education and reward.

I am not a feminist but I am proud to be from a country that has the values and culture such as the one they have, both Congo and Switzerland. 

Follow me on Instagram to discover everything about this new ink!

Thank you Switzerland for all that you are and thank you my beloved Congo for all that you gave me. This African Princess in me would not be without this strength that only you create and provide. 

To all the Congolese people all over the world, you are genetically gifted. 

Love, 

Tam.