THOUGHT OF THE NIGHT – My husband always make sure we are warm and have appropriate clothes for this cold weather. I’ve never had a man that made such thing a priority. French men are providers too. Swiss men are hella responsible and life planners like no other BUT English men (estate people – lower class British) are just sperm donors with rights.
1. Trust me when I say they will NOT buy your kids winter clothes or even ask if your kids are good for winter. It’s not their concerns at all because “The mother should be responsible and do it”.
2. These low class English men will NOT worry about yall kids having warm water, heating on, electricity that your children need to live on because “The mother should be responsible and handle it”.
3. Hysterical fact, it is LEGAL in England for a man to pay £10 a month PER CHILD in child support. UK fact: “Parents face bills of almost a quarter of a million pounds (£250,000) to raise just one child to the age of 21, new research shows. Surging childcare fees and expenses linked to education mean the basic cost of bringing up a child in the UK has risen 50 per cent faster than inflation over more than a decade.”
However, the said man will SHOUT OUT LOUD that:
a) They pay for their kids and that the mother is a “stupid b*tch” and ungrateful. The mother takes “their money” and use it on herself!! Guys, we’re talking diapers every two weeks plus baby milk and clothes etc minus bills FOR THE CHILD as well as activities and daily cost! Yup, your petty ass £10 ain’t shit for nobody to ball tf out. Okay, looooney?? 🤔🙄
b) They would stunt on the net claiming all type of bullsh*t but they have NO CLUE as to what their kids do at school at all. Fam, who is your kid school teacher? Oh you don’t know??! Okay, looooney 🤔🙄
I am so lucky that I no longer have this problem. I have a working man who makes sure that the children are always clothed, they always have warmth, electricity and a damn shelter over their heads.
DON’T GET ME WRONG LADIES I have been a single mum before. I have beeeeen paying bills. I know damn well we, women, beeeeen holding shit down. Im just saying though that i am glad that THIS SHIT RIGHT THERE is no longer my story.
HONESTLY, my dad is the only man prior to my husband I have had experienced that with.
It wasn’t just me though, my friends and many women I knew had “ain’t shit men” too. So it felt like NO GOOD MAN was out there and that the kind of man that many of us HAVE NOW didn’t exist then. So, we gave up and thought we had to stay with the devil we knew best UNTIL YOU SAY FUCK THAT and getchu yourrr real man!!! 😏👏🏾
I’m just glad I got to marry a good family man. I am a good family woman myself so to be able to finally give my all to my very own WORTHY family is everything.
I WOULD LIKE TO TAKE A MOMENT to salute all the beautiful men AND fathers out there. We need more like you AND WE APPRECIATE YOU and all that you do.
England is dysfunctional af fr fr 😐😑😴
NOW – WOMEN – don’t let a man use as a “surrogate” to have kids. Some men DO NOT respect the process of child bearing. It is in fact a life threatening process for you or your child. Many babies don’t make it past three months, 6 months, birth and then after!! Many mothers die while pregnant, during birth or after!!
These men out there are sh*tting on women. Calling them out of their names consistently and they DON’T GIVE A FUCK about the fact that for 10months gestation you created life. You had to change your lifestyle and diet. You had a million health checks to do. Some women lost their hair, broke their teeth (due to a need of calcium). You became anemic, got diabetic. A WHOLE LOT OF SH*T!! YET, you made it. The baby made it. You all survived all the complications through the pregnancy (if any complications occured) BUT A MF’ER GONNA DISRESPECT YOU AFTER ALL THAT TAKE YOUR CHILD?
DON’T 👏🏾 LET 👏🏾 A 👏🏾 MF’ER 👏🏾 USE 👏🏾 YOU!!! 👏🏾👏🏾 YOU ARE NOT A SURROGATE. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY YOU WILL DO ALL THE WORK and he would sit back yet bitch all day. Depending how, these MFs will even claim that the job YOU DID was theirs!!! CHOOSE YOUR MAN WISELY!!!
👏🏾👏🏾 If y’all not out here BUILDING FAMILIES TOGETHER IN PARTNERSHIP – DON’T HAVE KIDS!!!!
👏🏾👏🏾 If y’all aren’t committed to make it work as parents for your kids because you’re not mature enough – DON’T HAVE KIDS!!
👏🏾👏🏾 If a man don’t respect women – DON’T FUCK WITH HIM!!
👏🏾👏🏾 If a woman isn’t what you need – DO NOT GIVE HER YOUR SPERM!!
So many of us made these mistakes WHEN ARE YALL GON LEARN?????????? seriously. I’m just happy I don’t have to worry about them bullsh*ts there no more. Smh. DO BETTER SIS!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Goodnight. Tam 😐